ha ha ha poor old boy, is it all too much for you?

Another useful tip depending on whether you want a push or a pull on your interactions here - if you would like more of a push, when you add your friends, you need to also on the next page set notifications for new posts (you get choices of what things you want to hear about, and whether you want email alerts). I get email alerts as I don't like the Friends Page idea as once you have a few friends and communities on there it is hard to keep up!